Relationship vs. Friendship vs. Family ♚

Okay, it has been very long since I last updated my blog. Sorry readers! Hope all of you there behind the screen can forgive me for my lack of updates! )': And thanks for supporting me by reading my blog. I appreciate it a lot! Seriously, a lot. Okay stop those old grandmother story and get back to the point.

You should roughly know what am I gonna blog for this post base on the title, 'Relationship vs. Friendship vs. Family♚'. As you all know,  we go to school/ go to work we all have something called 'friends' or rather, some of you may be in a relationship and have friends too, maybe some anti social ones, only have 1/2  friends and no boyfriend/girlfriend of course. Or maybe, those seriously very anti social ones may not have friends/boyfriend/girlfriend but family will confirm will have, at least one relative. Or seriously seriously seriously,  don't have friends, don't have a boyfriend/ girlfriend, don't have any relative(s), i think you should make friends, be more social and friendly abit. But ofcouse, not over friendly.  You get what I mean yeah? Hahas. Oh yeah, please take note that this may be a very long blog post. So, happy reading!

Okay, lets continue. Let's talk about friendship first. I'm still schooling and I have a lot good friends!  Especially from my class people. They are awesome yo. Hahas. Other classes also have those not bad friends one la! Anyway,  sad to say this all sorts of 'friends' do quarrel. Do fight. Do ignore each other for days. But in the end, they would still be friends again, no matter how long each of them take to forgive another. So this is the power of friendship. But some, can ignore like the whole of their life. Means they 2 are not even fit to be friends in the first place. In between friends, there would be one 'extra' that pulls the friend away from the best friend. Yeah I know that this is childish. But it does happened. Even in secondary schools. Like seriously no offence. But can grow up please? Seriously,  No Offence. "Your body matured does not mean your brain is matured." There's a saying that said this. Okay anyway back to the point. I'm not cursing or criticizing anyone here that did that. Sorry if I offended you.

There is something called 'fake friends' too.  Or '2 sided face' people. Anything you want to call those heartless and fake people. Those people in front of you act very kind and sweet to you. But behind your back, they are gossiping about you to other people. I seriously seriously hate that kind of character. Omg those people can vanish in this world okay. *Not being mean but they are just too..UGHH!*  Seriously, if you don't like / hate the person, you can just walk to them and say, "Yo bitch you know what? I seriously hate yo bitch. Don't talk to me yo bitch."  Have swag and tell them. Don't fake friend and whatever shit. If you know that you are bring hated by alot people, go and reflect what you had done wrong and change yourself, your attitude, your character. If you don't change now,  happily get hated by peoples. Frankly speaking,  im NOT that kind of people who hate people bcoz they have a bad attitude / character. I will only hate you if you gossip behind my back. Why not just gossip IN FRONT of me. I don't really mind that. As long as you are honest and tell me the truth. (:
Admit this people, most of you care about your friends more then family normally right? Unless one of your family is in trouble or hospitalize.

Okay enough of ' friendship' let's move on to 'family' okay main people: your mom and dad. Both of them born you up, let you go to school, give you pocket money, buy you nice clothes, shoe, bags, give you food, cook for you etc. But most of us take this for granted. Agreed? We all go out with friends till very late, don't listen to them, gave them trouble, or sometimes, even say 'I hate you' to them etc. Actually,they love you a lot, nag is because for your own good. Yup, sometimes they do scold you for no reason because they are angry or stress.  But after that they will realised they did something wrong and go and talk to you happily like, "want some chicken wings?(:  " etc. Like to say sorry to you but in a very indirect way. Ahahas. They all want 'face' get it? If no, never mind you would get what i mean.

After all your mother and father born you out/your brother/sister so you should respect them. And your aunts/uncles too, grandma/grandpa.
Okay let's move on to the next topic. Relationship. Here are some cute relationship pictures <3 :

Okay everyone/ infect most people have crush. And if they are lucky, their crush likes them too. So they do something called, 'stead'. Most of them won't tell their family if they are only like, 13/14/15/16 years old but once u reach a certain age you would tell your family like, 20 years old or even younger. Okay, so once you are in a relationship, you would spend time with your boyfriend/girlfriend more then your friends. And your friends will not be so friendly as normal anymore. So must have a balance between both your friends and your bf/gf. As well as your family. You must not forget them. They are the most important ones out of friendship/relationship and family. Friend = End Girlfriend = End Boyfriend = End, but family = ily that's mean I Love You. Heard before?

During a relationship, youn will send sweet messages to your loves one. Hang out with them. Watch a movie etc. Kisses/Hugs will happen too. But some of them will do *ahem* sex too. You shall not have sex before you're marriage or else its a sin. Nahh im too young to write about this, so lets continue,there is something called 'break'. Don't forget about this too. When one of the both want to break because no feelings or any other reasons the another partner who really like the another one will 'heartbreak' and this need time to get over it. You will cry etc ignore your friends etc. But when you get over it. Life will become normal, like what you had before getting in a relationship. Or rather a better life. I don't know. :) Sometimes, sad to say, your girlfriend/boyfriend go and find another girlfriend/boyfriend behind your back. And you don't know. And once you know you will 'hate' them for life or slap them the next time you see them. Just because they don't like you already they go and find another one behind your back. This is really sad but it do happened. And also(some of them), your boyfriend/girlfriend during schooling/working or whatsoever, will flirt with with their classmate/workmate. This is normal. They will say ''We are just playing" but its an excuse. Even if it's real you will still be angry/jealous, won't you? Haiz in a relationship if you don't really care, just let your gf/bf be what they wanna do, i think you don't really like her/him.

Okay anyway the topic is, as you already know, "Relationship vs. Friendship vs. Family" Imagine you are in a relation, you have friends, you have a complete family. Most likely you will care for your girlfriend/boyfriend more then your friends as well as your family. You would rather spend time with her/him, like go out with him/her/ catch a movie/ eat lunch/dinner etc. Alot of things. Then you would most likely won't hang out with your friend/family that much. So your friends will most likely unfriend you after you break with your bf/gf. But your family will still be you, forever and always.

So spend time with your friends and family too if you are in a relationship! Have a balance between they 3. After all you won't regret anything if you have read this post and do it. Remember, action speaks louder.

Okay i will write until here. Thanks for reading! Love you guys.

                                                              Xoxo, Adelaide Ang <3